If you celebrate the day–Happy Thanksgiving from us to you and yours
Until next time, be well and be safe.
Wonderful Ways to Focus on Gratitude:
- Gratitude Journal–take five minutes a day to write down what you are grateful for today.
- Send those you love and/or those that have recently done something special for you–emotional support or hands-on assistance a handwritten thank you note.
- Show your gratitude to all those around you and take time each day to say”thank you.”
- Tuck little notes into your children’s lunchboxes, hubby’s lunch or shirt pocket and tell your people how much you appreciate and love them.
Gratitude is more than just little exercises to focus on or wall decor from your local craft and hobby store. Gratitude is a learned process of being thankful. More importantly feeling thankful and blessed even in the worst of times. In a sense being able to see the silver lining in all things. This, of course, can be extremely hard because our default state of mind during bad times is to fall deeper into negativity and believe that there is nothing to be thankful for and everything to be (insert emotion) toward.
It is believed that by practicing kindness and gratitude every day in one small way or another a shift occurs in the way you see things in life. Once this shift occurs it will become a natural part of who you are to include thankfulness and gratefulness in all things that happen to you in your life. Everyday problems in life will be looked at differently, for example– instead of a glass half empty way of thinking, you will see things from the perspective of a glass half full. So car problems will include being thankful you have a car, and house problems will include being thankful you have a roof over your head, and lastly, work issues will include being thankful you have a job.
With the holidays soon upon us, it’s especially important to take some time to reflect upon all the things in our lives, that we have to be thankful for. I get extremely frustrated at this time of year trying to juggle everything, but in putting this blog post together, I’ve decided to start a gratitude journal before Thanksgiving. I truly believe writing down something every day will keep me focused on being grateful for all the things I already have. This time of year every IG feed and Facebook post is filled with new and shiny things to buy. Looking around my home I realize I already have way more than I can truly appreciate. I’ve spent hundreds and hundreds of dollars on new stuff over the years–most of which I rarely have time to sit down and really enjoy. This holiday season I will live each day with intention and refocus on all the things in my life I have to be grateful for–health, marriage, friendships, warm home, food, and precious memories made with the people I love.
Have a lovely and blessed Thanksgiving.
For the foodie in your life: New Cookbooks 📚
- Simply Julia, 110 Easy Recipes for Healthy Comfort Food by Julia Turshen
- The Food of Oaxaca: Recipes and Stories from Mexico’s Culinary Capital by Carla Altesor
- The Weekday Vegetarians 100 Recipes and a Real Life Plan for Eating Less Meat by Jenny Rosenstrach
- Maman-The Cookbook: All Day Recipes to Warm Your Heart
- Black Food- Stories, Art, and Recipes from Across the African Diaspora
- Jew-ish: A Cookbook: Reinvented Recipes from a Modern Mensch by Jake Cohen
- The Pepper Thai Cookbook: Family Recipes from Everyone’s Favorite Thai Mom Book by Garrett Snyder and Pepper Teigen
Check your local bookstores out, or ask your local librarian if they have one of these at your library or have them order one of these new cookbooks for you to pick up to read.
For the movie lover 📽️ in your life: a paid subscription to a premium channel:
- Coming soon on HBO Max–Sex and the City “And Just Like That” (reboot) (as low as $9.99/mo)
- Handmaid’s Tale– Hulu April 2022 (as low as $7.50/mo)
- A favorite of mine–Discovery Plus ( Magnolia Network, The Lost Kitchen, and more) (as low as $6.99/mo)
Local Gift Ideas 🏠 :
- Gift certificates to antique stores, book stores, local theaters and museums
- Gift certificates to local restaurants
- Gift certificates for golf course membership, local apparel, grocery, jewelry, gift shop, most local stores
Local Businesses that may need your help🐕:
- Animal shelters
- Food shelters
- Homeless shelters
Things you can still do for your elderly neighbor 🌨️ (at least I hope so?)
- Offer to shovel their walk
- Offer when icy to walk their dog
- Stop occasionally, esp. if inclement weather is coming, and ask if they need anything
Until next time be well and be safe!
I’ve been making Thanksgiving dinner since I was 18 years old. For my husband I’ve been making the same Thanksgiving meal almost 28 years. Several years back I decided not to try new dishes for the first time during holiday meal making, because if they don’t turn out then my stress level goes through the roof. Nothing worse than a dish that flopped and there are a minimum of 10 hungry people at the table. Every year though I say to myself– “self, I should try something new this year”, but I never do. This year I’m taking a leap of faith and I’m making two new dishes. Last week I did a trial run to make sure neither of the dishes are going to be flops. The two new dishes are creamy mashed cauliflower and pumpkin bundt cake with cream cheese frosting. They turned out GREAT!
The recipe for the cauliflower is on Eating Well Creamy Mashed Cauliflower.
Once the cauliflower is cooked, mashed and creamy add butter, buttermilk, and nutmeg. Try Nutmeg– I promise you this will become your go to seasoning. It works well on cauliflower that has been steamed or boiled (just sprinkle a little over the top once done) and works great with green beans and Brussels sprouts. Just make sure to have a bit of butter worked into the veggies and then lightly sprinkle with nutmeg. In place of butter, if you like, you can use any oil you would normally drizzle on veggies. I would find a good priced quality extra virgin olive oil if you are opposed to adding butter.
My Turkey Day menu this year is:
(I love King Arthur Flour recipes– their pecan pie recipe is a big hit every time I make it)
Until next time–be well and be safe!
The holidays are just around the corner and whether you celebrate them or not–it can be a very stressful time of the year. Now more than ever, especially with social media, that stress is compounded. A personal rule of mine is to limit my social media time to 20 minutes a day max until after the new year. For me it is pretty simple to do as there are other things online that take up my time–like blogging, my YouTube channel, and eBay. Even without those things, I scroll IG to check out feeds of friends and organizations that I support and that takes roughly 20 minutes a day.
I’ve noticed in my conversations lately with friends how pressured they all seem to be to buy, travel, invest etc. Everyone around them, so they say, seems to be causing them a sense of urgency to buy, consume, and invest. I remind them that everywhere we go from now until mid-January the theme of the day is going to be buy, buy, buy in every store we enter. Believe it or not several years back hubby and I were the couple trying to keep up with everybody else. It didn’t matter that we didn’t have the income at the time, that a lot of our friends had, because we still tried to keep up. It doesn’t work my friends and it will not make you any happier. All you find is that you’ve bought a lot of things you don’t really want, you’ve possibly racked up a bit of debt, and, of course, more worries in the bargain.
Personally, I’ve found that the only way to get through the stress of the holidays is to take the time to stop and look around at all of the things in my little home and life that I do have. Appreciate them for what they are and enjoy what I have and not compare myself to others.
Another great stress reliever is to invite family and friends together on a Zoom or FaceTime call and make holiday plans for two years in a row. This way no one feels left out and everyone can see that if not this year, it will be next year. It works for us like a charm–and no hard feelings from anyone doing things this way.
In 2020 we didn’t entertain or have any holiday obligations because everyone we know is in the age bracket to stay close to home and in their own little bubble. Almost all of my friends/co-workers are working from home at this time. Here we are in 2021 and we’ve lost a couple of very close and dear friends and those left continue to want to stay close to home–at least until winter 2021-22 is over. We definitely respect that and I plan on doing what I did last year and that’s bake some goodies and drop plates off to four of our friends who live close by. We’ve already been promised a homemade pie, bread, and cranberry sauce (can’t wait). We’ll make do for another year and look forward to next Christmas and hopefully (fingers crossed) get-togethers. Until then we will make the best of this year’s and I’ll still cook and bake a lot, we’ll watch all of the James Bond films (just like every other year), play board games, read, rest and get ready for another year.
One thing that has always worked for me to do during the holidays is to find a bit of time at the end of each day to reflect on my life, work, home, hubby, marriage, and all the other things I am thankful for. Some nights I tuck myself into a corner in our home and go through album after album of Christmas photos from years gone by and my heart is so full by the time I get through it’s nearly bursting.
You know, every day we are always looking for the next big thing. Be it new furniture, clothing, likes, comments, the fountain of youth, 15 minutes of fame, viral videos, trips, stuff–you name it. But you know as well as I do when you are sick, or have spent time with someone sick or dying, or you yourself have a close call with death all you want is simple, easy, and all the little things. Just recently I was going through a rough patch of car issues, cat health issues, and hubby health issues and besides the praying I did for all to get better and stop hurting, I also sat back and prayed for myself. I prayed for long, boring, mundane days where the problems were easy to solve, no drama, or the unexpected.
What I’ve discovered in my life is that it really is the little things in life that add up to be the big things. We’re all waiting for the really big moments, but you know life is a lot of little moments woven together day to day, month to month, and year to year. So go ahead this year and enjoy each moment of the holiday season. Whether it is just you, or yourself and your partner, or you have a whole family full of people to please. Enjoy the simple things, relax and find peace in the moments you share with each other, whether you’re just sitting around and sharing fun memories or spending time doing fun things together.
Take a deep breath wherever you are and give yourself permission to go easy on yourself and others this year and enjoy!
Until next time, be well and be safe.
if you’re celebrating it!
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